Finding the One

Hello everyone! So I was just in New York City this past weekend and first off, if you have never been to NYC before, then I highly recommend it! This was my first trip there and I can’t wait to go back. I loved it. If I absolutely had to live there then I think I could handle it. But if I didn’t have to, then I wouldn’t. I’m fine with just visiting every once and awhile. One thing that I noticed was how many couples there were just walking around holding hands, kissing, and hugging to keep warm. It was sweet but it also reminded me of my single little life.

I know we talk about relationships a lot on this blog but it is one of the topics that our culture has a lot of interest in. Being single is hard sometimes. Especially this time of year when it’s so much fun to be in love and share the holidays with someone that means everything to you. Being single is not fun when you see all these people in relationships. It makes you really question yourself; am I good enough? And the answer is, yes!

The Lord created you for a reason and he created someone out there to love you and care for you. Even when it is so hard to see it, it is so true. There is a quote I have seen on pinterest before and I put it in my car to remind myself of all the time. It says, “A woman’s heart should be so close to God that a man should have to chase HIM to find her.” - C.S. Lewis. Have you ever really thought about that before? I honestly hadn’t. I mean, yeah I knew that you could find a great guy if you trust that the Lord will send him to you, but I never really thought about it the way that our friend Clive Staples put it. If we chase God with our whole heart and we put everything we have into following him and trusting him and believing in him, he will bless us. Even with the person we are going to spend the rest of our lives with.

I still haven’t met my future guy. And if I have met him, I don’t know who it is. But I trust that the Lord will send him to me one day. God may not be in a hurry, but he certainly is never late. God’s job is to unfold our future. Our job is to trust and glorify him as he does. I am probably one of the most impatient human beings on the face of this earth. I try not to show it, but inside I am so frustrated with things. One of the things I am impatient about is my “love life” if you can even call it that. But I know the Lord will send me someone one day. At least I pray he does. “Let God make a man out of him before you try to make a husband out of him.” - Unknown. Love you guys!

- Han <3 -